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A Father's Day Remembrance

On the day my father died I was 1,200 miles away.

I had gone to the hospital the morning before in San Diego to visit him. In his room I held his hand, said a prayer, kissed his forehead, and told him I loved him.

I then left to catch a flight to Denver, where Simon Hoggart, the well-known British journalist (now a columnist with The Guardian), was to speak the next day to the public forum I run. Just before the luncheon event with Hoggart, I received a call that my dad had passed away that morning.

Simon had spoken for me several times in San Diego and Denver and we had become friends. I told him of my father's death, and he suggested we cancel the event. But that didn't seem right. I was quite sure my dad, whose name I bear, would have wanted the show to go on

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06-16-2009 @ 6:01pm

"My father taught his children to treat every person with dignity and respect, and to never lose the grace of saying thank you (oh, if every parent today were so minded). He also believed to the core of his soul that whatever a person did to make a living, if they did it with honesty, they did it with honor."

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06-16-2009 @ 6:10pm

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06-16-2009 @ 6:10pm

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Your dad was a big man ! Thanks for sharing.

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06-16-2009 @ 6:01pm

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Your dad was a big man ! Thanks for sharing.

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George Mitrovich,

Thanks for relating the story of your dad's life and death. As I read, I reflected upon the occassion of my father's passing - alone in a hospital room. We didn't know how bad he was and I carry a sense of guilt for not being there with him. But as in your case, the life that he led and the memories that he left us is far more important. As we remember our fathers this weekend, we should resolve to leave a similar legacy that our loved ones can reflect upon long after we have passed from this life.

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George Mitrovich,

Thanks for relating the story of your dad's life and death. As I read, I reflected upon the occassion of my father's passing - alone in a hospital room. We didn't know how bad he was and I carry a sense of guilt for not being there with him. But as in your case, the life that he led and the memories that he left us is far more important. As we remember our fathers this weekend, we should resolve to leave a similar legacy that our loved ones can reflect upon long after we have passed from this life.

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and argument with their father will now realize the importance
of them while their still alive not when they already dead.

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and argument with their father will now realize the importance
of them while their still alive not when they already dead.

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of them while their still alive not when they already dead.

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of them while their still alive not when they already dead.

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