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Sotomayor's 'Temperament Problem': Perception and Reality

Judge Sonia Sotomayor's approval as a U.S. Supreme Court Justice may be a forgone conclusion at this point, but her nomination hearings last week raised important questions related to diversity that merit ongoing examination.

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If you do very much work on issues of diversity, the questions of perception versus reality are bound to come up. Often, it's in a defensive context: My action may have been perceived as racist, but the "reality" is that there was a reason for it that has nothing to do with race. (But were you concerned, or even aware, of how your actions could have been perceived by people who are important to you?) Or, it sometimes relates to the flawed perceptions of members of the dominant culture. Perception: "Yes, our church is very diverse." Reality: Only a few people of color attend who generally feel out of place in what they experience as a culturally "white" congregation.

Since this post is about Sotomayor, you may already be thinking about her "wise Latina" comments. But that's really more of a case of perception versus intention -- the difference between what I said and what you heard. Or, the difference between what I meant to say and what you wanted to hear. The dynamic is similar and worth exploring, but I think Jim Wallis took on the "perspective" issue beautifully in his post last week.

No, what fired me up last week has less to do with perceptions regarding Sotomayor's ethnicity and more to do with her gender. Observe this line of questioning by Senator Lindsay Graham:

... lawyers anonymously rate judges in terms of temperament, and here's what they said about you: "She's a terror on the bench." "She's temperamental, excitable." "She seems angry." "She's overly aggressive, not very judicial." "She does not have a very good temperament." "She abuses lawyers." "She really lacks judicial temperament." "She believes in an out-of-control -- she behaves in an out-of-control manner." "She makes inappropriate outbursts." "She is nasty to lawyers." "She'll attack lawyers for making an argument she does not like." "She can be a bit of a bully."
...
I never liked appearing before a judge that I thought was a bully. It's hard enough being a lawyer, having your client there to begin with, without the judge just beating you up for no good reason. Do you think you have a temperament problem?

Thank God for NPR to slap some reality down on that perception:

Judge Guido Calabresi, former Yale Law School dean and Sotomayor's mentor, now says that when Sotomayor first joined the Court of Appeals, he began hearing rumors that she was overly aggressive, and he started keeping track, comparing the substance and tone of her questions with those of his male colleagues and his own questions.

"And I must say I found no difference at all. So I concluded that all that was going on was that there were some male lawyers who couldn't stand being questioned toughly by a woman," Calabresi says. "It was sexism in its most obvious form."

And what if such criticism came from a woman lawyer? Well, says Calabresi, women can be just as sexist as men in their expectations of how a woman judge should act.

Sen. Graham's questions and Calabresi's observations immediately brought to mind linguist Deborah Tannen's Talking from 9 to 5: Women and Men at Work. The book studies the differences in communication habits and expectations between men and women. If you're a man or woman who sometimes talks to members of the opposite gender at work, I recommend it.

One of Tannen's key observations, grossly oversimplified: If women talk like women, they're ignored. If women talk like men, they're hated. Tannen goes to great pains to qualify such generalizations. Obviously, there's not just one way that women or men talk -- or react. She also provides numerous studies and research that demonstrate how pervasive such trends are, but here's one key passage that summarizes her findings and conveniently links them to a political context:

Before the 1992 national election, there were two women in the United States Senate: Democrat Barbara Mikulski of Maryland and Republican Nancy Kassebaum of Kansas. Senator Mikulski is frequently called "tough" becuase of her hard-hitting style (a style that would be unremarkable, and probably unremarked, in a male senator). Senator Kassebaum has a style closer to that expected of women, one that would be characterized as "a soft touch." Each became an object lesson for the other. "You should be more like Barbara," their colleagues told Senator Kassebaum, encouraging her to be firmer and more assertive. "You should be more like Nancy," they told Mikulski, encouraging her to soften her approach. This complementary and conflicting advice dramatizes the damned-if-you-do-damned-if-you-don't double bind that women in authority confront. As more and more women, each with her own unique style, take their seats in the Senate and in other positions of authority, we can hope that each woman will be free to be more like herself.

Add the Supreme Court to that list.

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by: wordherder62

07-22-2009 @ 7:55pm

And the surprise is? Graham said last week he would likely support her. Nothing new here. So Graham did what he said he was going to do? Hmmm ... I guess we should stop the presses. Graham, as I said above, is trying to be different from what S.C. has offered up in the past but he also still has to get re-elected there. Sotomayor has handled herself well in these hearings and Graham deserves credit for recognizing that and not simply voting against her to be voting against her. One thing in Graham's favor is that South Carolinians will keep the same pols in office for life barring massive mistakes on their part (i.e. Mark Sanford).

by: Palosaari

07-21-2009 @ 6:22pm

John Stewart had a beautiful response to this line of questioning this past week. He read some of the anonymous comments posted online about Senator Graham.

by: 1Grace

07-21-2009 @ 7:00pm

Hear about the lawyer who was the gates of heaven . St Peter showed the lawyer to the gracious lawyer quarters , thousands of sq feet , the largest living quaterers in heaven . Some folks from the other quarters spoke up , asking Peter why they were so crowded . He said that was the first lawyer that had made it in heaven .

by: ando

07-21-2009 @ 7:48pm

I personally find Sen. Graham a breath of fresh air, at least in the Republican party. I doubt if anybody would have found it a problem here at Sojo had it been a Democrat doing the same thing to a hated conservative nominee. But, that's politics...

by: Mattchanning

07-21-2009 @ 8:41pm

If you follow any of Graham's public behavior over the course of his tenure, you'll see he's an ignorant obnoxious, racist, sexist, hypocritical bigot.

He's a breath of fresh air, considering a whiff of manure might be considered a breath of fresh air when compared with sulphur.

by: 1Grace

07-21-2009 @ 8:45pm

Ando that is a good point . Temperament is important in regards to a group coming together and sharing information and thought processes. Unlike here where one side is wrong from the beginning . Then you try to take information to defend it and question the motive of anything that is disagreeable,

I wish Supreme Court Nominess were not so political , Then people would welcome knowing the Court Justice was open to critical thought, and such questioning would have been considered a good thing by all. . Getting 9 people to work together yet each having individual roles is not an easy task .

by: ando

07-21-2009 @ 9:02pm

Why present facts when you can come up with your own opinions without citing your source(s)?

by: Eric77

07-21-2009 @ 11:08pm

The only way to make Supreme Court confirmations less political is either to reduce the power the Supreme Court has or reduce the length of time someone can serve on it. As long as it's going to be deciding major issues, deciding who sits on it will be political.

by: 1Grace

07-22-2009 @ 1:28am

Eric your right , I am not sure how that happens , I have read on the court's history and seen documentaries. The power the court has is quite a new phenomenon in the total history of our system.

by: wordherder62

07-22-2009 @ 1:41am

Judge Sotomayor is up for a Supreme Court justice seat. I want the toughest, most critical judges we have on that bench. I want a judge with a highly accurate and sensitive BS detector sitting there asking questions of lawyers who better be ready for big-league pitching if they've gone to the U.S. Supreme Court to try a case. I want a mean justice on the U.S. Supreme Court and if that is a problem for Mr. Graham, then he should go back to prosecuting cases in South Carolina where he had soft juries who would always do whatever the prosecutor asked of them. And, while Mr. Graham may be a chance of pace in some ways from what S.C. has put forth in the past, remember he is from the S.C. Republican Party and tradition and few apples fall far from the Strom Thurmond tree there.

by: lumens

07-22-2009 @ 2:42am

This post elicited some very nuanced and compelling responses from the liberals here. Allow me to reconstruct wordherder's syllogism.

1) Lindsey Graham is from South Carolina
2) Graham is a Republican
3) Strom Thurmond was a Republican from South Carolina
4) Therefore, a cliche about apples.

by: JamesM

07-22-2009 @ 8:30am

Slamming SOJO again? It is sounding like a broken record. Maybe you could find some original material.

by: Palosaari

07-21-2009 @ 6:22pm

John Stewart had a beautiful response to this line of questioning this past week. He read some of the anonymous comments posted online about Senator Graham.

by: 1Grace

07-21-2009 @ 7:00pm

Hear about the lawyer who was the gates of heaven . St Peter showed the lawyer to the gracious lawyer quarters , thousands of sq feet , the largest living quaterers in heaven . Some folks from the other quarters spoke up , asking Peter why they were so crowded . He said that was the first lawyer that had made it in heaven .

by: ando

07-21-2009 @ 7:48pm

I personally find Sen. Graham a breath of fresh air, at least in the Republican party. I doubt if anybody would have found it a problem here at Sojo had it been a Democrat doing the same thing to a hated conservative nominee. But, that's politics...

by: Mattchanning

07-21-2009 @ 8:41pm

If you follow any of Graham's public behavior over the course of his tenure, you'll see he's an ignorant obnoxious, racist, sexist, hypocritical bigot.

He's a breath of fresh air, considering a whiff of manure might be considered a breath of fresh air when compared with sulphur.

by: 1Grace

07-21-2009 @ 8:45pm

Ando that is a good point . Temperament is important in regards to a group coming together and sharing information and thought processes. Unlike here where one side is wrong from the beginning . Then you try to take information to defend it and question the motive of anything that is disagreeable,

I wish Supreme Court Nominess were not so political , Then people would welcome knowing the Court Justice was open to critical thought, and such questioning would have been considered a good thing by all. . Getting 9 people to work together yet each having individual roles is not an easy task .

by: ando

07-21-2009 @ 9:02pm

Why present facts when you can come up with your own opinions without citing your source(s)?

by: Eric77

07-21-2009 @ 11:08pm

The only way to make Supreme Court confirmations less political is either to reduce the power the Supreme Court has or reduce the length of time someone can serve on it. As long as it's going to be deciding major issues, deciding who sits on it will be political.

by: 1Grace

07-22-2009 @ 1:28am

Eric your right , I am not sure how that happens , I have read on the court's history and seen documentaries. The power the court has is quite a new phenomenon in the total history of our system.

by: wordherder62

07-22-2009 @ 1:41am

Judge Sotomayor is up for a Supreme Court justice seat. I want the toughest, most critical judges we have on that bench. I want a judge with a highly accurate and sensitive BS detector sitting there asking questions of lawyers who better be ready for big-league pitching if they've gone to the U.S. Supreme Court to try a case. I want a mean justice on the U.S. Supreme Court and if that is a problem for Mr. Graham, then he should go back to prosecuting cases in South Carolina where he had soft juries who would always do whatever the prosecutor asked of them. And, while Mr. Graham may be a chance of pace in some ways from what S.C. has put forth in the past, remember he is from the S.C. Republican Party and tradition and few apples fall far from the Strom Thurmond tree there.

by: lumens

07-22-2009 @ 2:42am

This post elicited some very nuanced and compelling responses from the liberals here. Allow me to reconstruct wordherder's syllogism.

1) Lindsey Graham is from South Carolina
2) Graham is a Republican
3) Strom Thurmond was a Republican from South Carolina
4) Therefore, a cliche about apples.

by: JamesM

07-22-2009 @ 8:30am

Slamming SOJO again? It is sounding like a broken record. Maybe you could find some original material.

by: 1Grace

07-22-2009 @ 6:39pm

"considering a whiff of manure might be considered a breath of fresh air when compared with sulphur."

So matt Senator Graham is suporting This nomination because he is a bigot ? Otherwise from the posts we really only know the negatives about people whose opinions are being given . Like Graham saying that most of her decisions are in the mainstream , and he was trobled by her Latino wiomen statement , which the next Supreme Court Judge agrees with because of the way it sounded . Quite interesting support , The best support she has gotten here is from Grahams comments in the article . Which according to you is from a bigot ?

http://www.comcast.net/articles/news-general/20...

by: 1Grace

07-22-2009 @ 6:39pm

"considering a whiff of manure might be considered a breath of fresh air when compared with sulphur."

So matt Senator Graham is suporting This nomination because he is a bigot ? Otherwise from the posts we really only know the negatives about people whose opinions are being given . Like Graham saying that most of her decisions are in the mainstream , and he was trobled by her Latino wiomen statement , which the next Supreme Court Judge agrees with because of the way it sounded . Quite interesting support , The best support she has gotten here is from Grahams comments in the article . Which according to you is from a bigot ?

http://www.comcast.net/articles/news-general/20...

by: wordherder62

07-22-2009 @ 7:55pm

And the surprise is? Graham said last week he would likely support her. Nothing new here. So Graham did what he said he was going to do? Hmmm ... I guess we should stop the presses. Graham, as I said above, is trying to be different from what S.C. has offered up in the past but he also still has to get re-elected there. Sotomayor has handled herself well in these hearings and Graham deserves credit for recognizing that and not simply voting against her to be voting against her. One thing in Graham's favor is that South Carolinians will keep the same pols in office for life barring massive mistakes on their part (i.e. Mark Sanford).

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by: Palosaari

07-21-2009 @ 6:22pm

John Stewart had a beautiful response to this line of questioning this past week. He read some of the anonymous comments posted online about Senator Graham.

by: Palosaari

07-21-2009 @ 6:22pm

John Stewart had a beautiful response to this line of questioning this past week. He read some of the anonymous comments posted online about Senator Graham.

by: 1Grace

07-21-2009 @ 7:00pm

Hear about the lawyer who was the gates of heaven . St Peter showed the lawyer to the gracious lawyer quarters , thousands of sq feet , the largest living quaterers in heaven . Some folks from the other quarters spoke up , asking Peter why they were so crowded . He said that was the first lawyer that had made it in heaven .

by: 1Grace

07-21-2009 @ 7:00pm

Hear about the lawyer who was the gates of heaven . St Peter showed the lawyer to the gracious lawyer quarters , thousands of sq feet , the largest living quaterers in heaven . Some folks from the other quarters spoke up , asking Peter why they were so crowded . He said that was the first lawyer that had made it in heaven .

by: ando

07-21-2009 @ 7:48pm

I personally find Sen. Graham a breath of fresh air, at least in the Republican party. I doubt if anybody would have found it a problem here at Sojo had it been a Democrat doing the same thing to a hated conservative nominee. But, that's politics...

by: ando

07-21-2009 @ 7:48pm

I personally find Sen. Graham a breath of fresh air, at least in the Republican party. I doubt if anybody would have found it a problem here at Sojo had it been a Democrat doing the same thing to a hated conservative nominee. But, that's politics...

by: Mattchanning

07-21-2009 @ 8:41pm

If you follow any of Graham's public behavior over the course of his tenure, you'll see he's an ignorant obnoxious, racist, sexist, hypocritical bigot.

He's a breath of fresh air, considering a whiff of manure might be considered a breath of fresh air when compared with sulphur.

by: Mattchanning

07-21-2009 @ 8:41pm

If you follow any of Graham's public behavior over the course of his tenure, you'll see he's an ignorant obnoxious, racist, sexist, hypocritical bigot.

He's a breath of fresh air, considering a whiff of manure might be considered a breath of fresh air when compared with sulphur.

by: 1Grace

07-21-2009 @ 8:45pm

Ando that is a good point . Temperament is important in regards to a group coming together and sharing information and thought processes. Unlike here where one side is wrong from the beginning . Then you try to take information to defend it and question the motive of anything that is disagreeable,

I wish Supreme Court Nominess were not so political , Then people would welcome knowing the Court Justice was open to critical thought, and such questioning would have been considered a good thing by all. . Getting 9 people to work together yet each having individual roles is not an easy task .

by: 1Grace

07-21-2009 @ 8:45pm

Ando that is a good point . Temperament is important in regards to a group coming together and sharing information and thought processes. Unlike here where one side is wrong from the beginning . Then you try to take information to defend it and question the motive of anything that is disagreeable,

I wish Supreme Court Nominess were not so political , Then people would welcome knowing the Court Justice was open to critical thought, and such questioning would have been considered a good thing by all. . Getting 9 people to work together yet each having individual roles is not an easy task .

by: ando

07-21-2009 @ 9:02pm

Why present facts when you can come up with your own opinions without citing your source(s)?

by: ando

07-21-2009 @ 9:02pm

Why present facts when you can come up with your own opinions without citing your source(s)?

by: Eric77

07-21-2009 @ 11:08pm

The only way to make Supreme Court confirmations less political is either to reduce the power the Supreme Court has or reduce the length of time someone can serve on it. As long as it's going to be deciding major issues, deciding who sits on it will be political.

by: Eric77

07-21-2009 @ 11:08pm

The only way to make Supreme Court confirmations less political is either to reduce the power the Supreme Court has or reduce the length of time someone can serve on it. As long as it's going to be deciding major issues, deciding who sits on it will be political.

by: 1Grace

07-22-2009 @ 1:28am

Eric your right , I am not sure how that happens , I have read on the court's history and seen documentaries. The power the court has is quite a new phenomenon in the total history of our system.

by: 1Grace

07-22-2009 @ 1:28am

Eric your right , I am not sure how that happens , I have read on the court's history and seen documentaries. The power the court has is quite a new phenomenon in the total history of our system.

by: wordherder62

07-22-2009 @ 1:41am

Judge Sotomayor is up for a Supreme Court justice seat. I want the toughest, most critical judges we have on that bench. I want a judge with a highly accurate and sensitive BS detector sitting there asking questions of lawyers who better be ready for big-league pitching if they've gone to the U.S. Supreme Court to try a case. I want a mean justice on the U.S. Supreme Court and if that is a problem for Mr. Graham, then he should go back to prosecuting cases in South Carolina where he had soft juries who would always do whatever the prosecutor asked of them. And, while Mr. Graham may be a chance of pace in some ways from what S.C. has put forth in the past, remember he is from the S.C. Republican Party and tradition and few apples fall far from the Strom Thurmond tree there.

by: wordherder62

07-22-2009 @ 1:41am

Judge Sotomayor is up for a Supreme Court justice seat. I want the toughest, most critical judges we have on that bench. I want a judge with a highly accurate and sensitive BS detector sitting there asking questions of lawyers who better be ready for big-league pitching if they've gone to the U.S. Supreme Court to try a case. I want a mean justice on the U.S. Supreme Court and if that is a problem for Mr. Graham, then he should go back to prosecuting cases in South Carolina where he had soft juries who would always do whatever the prosecutor asked of them. And, while Mr. Graham may be a chance of pace in some ways from what S.C. has put forth in the past, remember he is from the S.C. Republican Party and tradition and few apples fall far from the Strom Thurmond tree there.

by: lumens

07-22-2009 @ 2:42am

This post elicited some very nuanced and compelling responses from the liberals here. Allow me to reconstruct wordherder's syllogism.

1) Lindsey Graham is from South Carolina
2) Graham is a Republican
3) Strom Thurmond was a Republican from South Carolina
4) Therefore, a cliche about apples.

by: lumens

07-22-2009 @ 2:42am

This post elicited some very nuanced and compelling responses from the liberals here. Allow me to reconstruct wordherder's syllogism.

1) Lindsey Graham is from South Carolina
2) Graham is a Republican
3) Strom Thurmond was a Republican from South Carolina
4) Therefore, a cliche about apples.

by: JamesM

07-22-2009 @ 8:30am

Slamming SOJO again? It is sounding like a broken record. Maybe you could find some original material.

by: JamesM

07-22-2009 @ 8:30am

Slamming SOJO again? It is sounding like a broken record. Maybe you could find some original material.

by: 1Grace

07-22-2009 @ 6:39pm

"considering a whiff of manure might be considered a breath of fresh air when compared with sulphur."

So matt Senator Graham is suporting This nomination because he is a bigot ? Otherwise from the posts we really only know the negatives about people whose opinions are being given . Like Graham saying that most of her decisions are in the mainstream , and he was trobled by her Latino wiomen statement , which the next Supreme Court Judge agrees with because of the way it sounded . Quite interesting support , The best support she has gotten here is from Grahams comments in the article . Which according to you is from a bigot ?

http://www.comcast.net/articles/news-general/20...

by: 1Grace

07-22-2009 @ 6:39pm

"considering a whiff of manure might be considered a breath of fresh air when compared with sulphur."

So matt Senator Graham is suporting This nomination because he is a bigot ? Otherwise from the posts we really only know the negatives about people whose opinions are being given . Like Graham saying that most of her decisions are in the mainstream , and he was trobled by her Latino wiomen statement , which the next Supreme Court Judge agrees with because of the way it sounded . Quite interesting support , The best support she has gotten here is from Grahams comments in the article . Which according to you is from a bigot ?

http://www.comcast.net/articles/news-general/20...

by: wordherder62

07-22-2009 @ 7:55pm

And the surprise is? Graham said last week he would likely support her. Nothing new here. So Graham did what he said he was going to do? Hmmm ... I guess we should stop the presses. Graham, as I said above, is trying to be different from what S.C. has offered up in the past but he also still has to get re-elected there. Sotomayor has handled herself well in these hearings and Graham deserves credit for recognizing that and not simply voting against her to be voting against her. One thing in Graham's favor is that South Carolinians will keep the same pols in office for life barring massive mistakes on their part (i.e. Mark Sanford).

by: wordherder62

07-22-2009 @ 7:55pm

And the surprise is? Graham said last week he would likely support her. Nothing new here. So Graham did what he said he was going to do? Hmmm ... I guess we should stop the presses. Graham, as I said above, is trying to be different from what S.C. has offered up in the past but he also still has to get re-elected there. Sotomayor has handled herself well in these hearings and Graham deserves credit for recognizing that and not simply voting against her to be voting against her. One thing in Graham's favor is that South Carolinians will keep the same pols in office for life barring massive mistakes on their part (i.e. Mark Sanford).