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Why Are There So Few Solo Women Church Planters?

Church planting is its own weird thing. It takes a certain personality to think you might, just might, be able to (with tons of help from God) start a church from scratch. There is a somewhat particular constellation of personality traits needed for such a task. These traits may allow one to be suited for church planting but be horribly ill suited for many other things... let's not pretend otherwise. So at the risk of sounding like I'm indulging in self-flattery, let me attempt to list some of these traits.

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A church planter is usually:

  • self-motivated
  • creative
  • charismatic
  • independent
  • connecting
  • can inspire others to do stuff
  • responsive and adaptive
  • someone who can hold a vision of what's possible

OK -- I'm sure there are other things, but these come to mind at 6:30 in the morning.

Are these characteristics simply found in more men than women? Maybe... but if so, then why? And if not, then why aren't more women doing what I do? I bet there are 30-40 church plants of all different ilks in Denver, and I am the only solo female church planter I know here.

Here are some reasons I thought of:

  • Obviously some Christian traditions don't allow women to be pastors
  • There are a lot of women who are married with children who don't have the kind of family and spousal support that I have in my life. (Two of the three other solo church planters I know are single women)
  • Thinking back to my youth group and other co-ed groups from when I was a teen, it seemed like the really funny charismatic people whose plans and ideas other people got on board with were all male. Young women are not as likely to be rewarded for being that kind of person.

What percentage of solo church planters you know are women?

What factors have I not considered?

Nadia Bolz-WeberNadia Bolz-Weber is a Lutheran pastor living in Denver, Colorado, where she serves the emerging church, House for all Sinners and Saints. She blogs at www.sarcasticlutheran.com and is the author of Salvation on the Small Screen? 24 Hours of Christian Television.

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by: Guest

03-23-2010 @ 1:58pm

Thank you for asking the question. So glad you're blogging with Sojourners' God's Politics. For women who are interested in connecting with other women in ministry, I recommend WATER: Women's Alliance for Theology, Ethics and Ritual and The Sister Fund.

by: abledsoe

05-06-2010 @ 10:15pm

Hey there, Nadia. You missed the other solo female church planter you graduated with who's still in the Denver area: Anne Dunlap at Liberation Community (www.liberationcommunity.org)

by: abledsoe

05-06-2010 @ 10:15pm

Hey there, Nadia. You missed the other solo female church planter you graduated with who's still in the Denver area: Anne Dunlap at Liberation Community (www.liberationcommunity.org)

by: nathancreitz

03-29-2010 @ 2:11pm

I wouldn't want a church plant to be planted by a solo woman or man. I think the team approach is the best! Can women serve on a church planting team? Absolutely! The Body is filled with diversity and we need that kind of diversity on our church planting teams. So, I wouldn't advocate for a solo woman church planter, ever!

by: Patricia

03-22-2010 @ 2:32pm

That most Christian men are just not about to follow a woman? That seems like a biggie to me. Not a characteristic of the planter, but an important stumbling block for many "plantees."

by: ashem

03-22-2010 @ 4:03pm

My mom planted a church by herself. (She was even pregnant with my brother at the time). For a while it went really well! However, pro-sexist ideologies still exist--even in denominations that support the ordination of women. Long story short, they gave the church which she started to a man, hoping he could pull the attendance up when the numbers began to fluctuate. He promptly ran it into the ground, and the church no longer exists.

by: Lilly Kathryn Louise

03-22-2010 @ 7:28pm

A lot of it has to do with sexism, unfortunately. And I think differences in how the sexes often are taught to view the church. I know a lot of women who try very hard to support the existing structures (as many of us have been socialized as 'supporters' rather than allowed to be 'independent') and put our energy into that avenue for outreach.

by: Guest

03-23-2010 @ 1:58pm

Thank you for asking the question. So glad you're blogging with Sojourners' God's Politics. For women who are interested in connecting with other women in ministry, I recommend WATER: Women's Alliance for Theology, Ethics and Ritual and The Sister Fund.

by: abledsoe

05-06-2010 @ 10:15pm

Hey there, Nadia. You missed the other solo female church planter you graduated with who's still in the Denver area: Anne Dunlap at Liberation Community (www.liberationcommunity.org)

by: linwrites

10-04-2011 @ 12:49pm

Hi Nadia! Ran across this blog and even though it's a year old, I want to thank you for writing it! We solo church planting women are still out here but we are very far and few between. It is absolutely pioneering work for sure. And it's sad how resistant God's church is to God's upcoming revolution of having as many women planting and leading churches as there are men. It's exciting though because our generation is about to see it happen in miraculous ways! I know I am and will be a small piece in it. Keep praying family of Christ, God's will WILL be done because it's not about us, nor male or female but it is all about CHRIST and how He can use both genders. faith 101 sheesh! :-) Love, Lin W. / Church Planter / Founding Senior Pastor www.churchatmovies.com www.thatwomanpastor.com

by: revcsg

03-25-2010 @ 9:38pm

The Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) has several churches in the Kansas City area that were planted by women that vary in size and mission greatly. One is oriented to families gathering in the home of the pastor on a day other than Sunday; another is "homey" (the church is a converted house) and innovative; yet another is more that 15 years old and has several hundred worshiping in a building that was intentionally built to be eco-friendly. These strong women exist; don't give up hope!

by: nathancreitz

03-29-2010 @ 2:11pm

I wouldn't want a church plant to be planted by a solo woman or man. I think the team approach is the best! Can women serve on a church planting team? Absolutely! The Body is filled with diversity and we need that kind of diversity on our church planting teams. So, I wouldn't advocate for a solo woman church planter, ever!

by: facebook-1183256698

05-26-2010 @ 10:18pm

In my synod (Northeast Ohio), there are two church planters; one white male, one black female. I think it's hard to be a church planter and have a family (at least for women). It takes a lot of self-confidence, too (which I don't think is encouraged as much in women). On the other hand, when I was a teenager, I couldn't imagine being a pastor (since I'd never seen a female pastors) and now I am one!

by: facebook-1183256698

05-26-2010 @ 10:18pm

In my synod (Northeast Ohio), there are two church planters; one white male, one black female. I think it's hard to be a church planter and have a family (at least for women). It takes a lot of self-confidence, too (which I don't think is encouraged as much in women). On the other hand, when I was a teenager, I couldn't imagine being a pastor (since I'd never seen a female pastors) and now I am one!

by: facebook-1183256698

05-26-2010 @ 10:18pm

In my synod (Northeast Ohio), there are two church planters; one white male, one black female. I think it's hard to be a church planter and have a family (at least for women). It takes a lot of self-confidence, too (which I don't think is encouraged as much in women). On the other hand, when I was a teenager, I couldn't imagine being a pastor (since I'd never seen a female pastors) and now I am one!

by: Patricia

03-22-2010 @ 2:32pm

That most Christian men are just not about to follow a woman? That seems like a biggie to me. Not a characteristic of the planter, but an important stumbling block for many "plantees."

by: ashem

03-22-2010 @ 4:03pm

My mom planted a church by herself. (She was even pregnant with my brother at the time). For a while it went really well! However, pro-sexist ideologies still exist--even in denominations that support the ordination of women. Long story short, they gave the church which she started to a man, hoping he could pull the attendance up when the numbers began to fluctuate. He promptly ran it into the ground, and the church no longer exists.

by: Lilly Kathryn Louise

03-22-2010 @ 7:28pm

A lot of it has to do with sexism, unfortunately. And I think differences in how the sexes often are taught to view the church. I know a lot of women who try very hard to support the existing structures (as many of us have been socialized as 'supporters' rather than allowed to be 'independent') and put our energy into that avenue for outreach.

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03-22-2010 @ 9:19pm

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by: revcsg

03-25-2010 @ 9:38pm

The Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) has several churches in the Kansas City area that were planted by women that vary in size and mission greatly. One is oriented to families gathering in the home of the pastor on a day other than Sunday; another is "homey" (the church is a converted house) and innovative; yet another is more that 15 years old and has several hundred worshiping in a building that was intentionally built to be eco-friendly. These strong women exist; don't give up hope!

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by: Patricia

03-22-2010 @ 2:32pm

That most Christian men are just not about to follow a woman? That seems like a biggie to me. Not a characteristic of the planter, but an important stumbling block for many "plantees."

by: Patricia

03-22-2010 @ 2:32pm

That most Christian men are just not about to follow a woman? That seems like a biggie to me. Not a characteristic of the planter, but an important stumbling block for many "plantees."

by: ashem

03-22-2010 @ 4:03pm

My mom planted a church by herself. (She was even pregnant with my brother at the time). For a while it went really well! However, pro-sexist ideologies still exist--even in denominations that support the ordination of women. Long story short, they gave the church which she started to a man, hoping he could pull the attendance up when the numbers began to fluctuate. He promptly ran it into the ground, and the church no longer exists.

by: ashem

03-22-2010 @ 4:03pm

My mom planted a church by herself. (She was even pregnant with my brother at the time). For a while it went really well! However, pro-sexist ideologies still exist--even in denominations that support the ordination of women. Long story short, they gave the church which she started to a man, hoping he could pull the attendance up when the numbers began to fluctuate. He promptly ran it into the ground, and the church no longer exists.

by: Lilly Kathryn Louise

03-22-2010 @ 7:28pm

A lot of it has to do with sexism, unfortunately. And I think differences in how the sexes often are taught to view the church. I know a lot of women who try very hard to support the existing structures (as many of us have been socialized as 'supporters' rather than allowed to be 'independent') and put our energy into that avenue for outreach.

by: Lilly Kathryn Louise

03-22-2010 @ 7:28pm

A lot of it has to do with sexism, unfortunately. And I think differences in how the sexes often are taught to view the church. I know a lot of women who try very hard to support the existing structures (as many of us have been socialized as 'supporters' rather than allowed to be 'independent') and put our energy into that avenue for outreach.

by: uberVU - social comments

03-22-2010 @ 9:19pm

Social comments and analytics for this post...

This post was mentioned on Twitter by sojourners: Why Are There So Few Solo Women Church Planters? http://su.pr/5Oxdka...

by: Guest

03-23-2010 @ 1:58pm

Thank you for asking the question. So glad you're blogging with Sojourners' God's Politics. For women who are interested in connecting with other women in ministry, I recommend WATER: Women's Alliance for Theology, Ethics and Ritual and The Sister Fund.

by: Guest

03-23-2010 @ 1:58pm

Thank you for asking the question. So glad you're blogging with Sojourners' God's Politics. For women who are interested in connecting with other women in ministry, I recommend WATER: Women's Alliance for Theology, Ethics and Ritual and The Sister Fund.

by: revcsg

03-25-2010 @ 9:38pm

The Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) has several churches in the Kansas City area that were planted by women that vary in size and mission greatly. One is oriented to families gathering in the home of the pastor on a day other than Sunday; another is "homey" (the church is a converted house) and innovative; yet another is more that 15 years old and has several hundred worshiping in a building that was intentionally built to be eco-friendly. These strong women exist; don't give up hope!

by: revcsg

03-25-2010 @ 9:38pm

The Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) has several churches in the Kansas City area that were planted by women that vary in size and mission greatly. One is oriented to families gathering in the home of the pastor on a day other than Sunday; another is "homey" (the church is a converted house) and innovative; yet another is more that 15 years old and has several hundred worshiping in a building that was intentionally built to be eco-friendly. These strong women exist; don't give up hope!

by: nathancreitz

03-29-2010 @ 2:11pm

I wouldn't want a church plant to be planted by a solo woman or man. I think the team approach is the best! Can women serve on a church planting team? Absolutely! The Body is filled with diversity and we need that kind of diversity on our church planting teams. So, I wouldn't advocate for a solo woman church planter, ever!

by: nathancreitz

03-29-2010 @ 2:11pm

I wouldn't want a church plant to be planted by a solo woman or man. I think the team approach is the best! Can women serve on a church planting team? Absolutely! The Body is filled with diversity and we need that kind of diversity on our church planting teams. So, I wouldn't advocate for a solo woman church planter, ever!

by: abledsoe

05-06-2010 @ 10:15pm

Hey there, Nadia. You missed the other solo female church planter you graduated with who's still in the Denver area: Anne Dunlap at Liberation Community (www.liberationcommunity.org)

by: abledsoe

05-06-2010 @ 10:15pm

Hey there, Nadia. You missed the other solo female church planter you graduated with who's still in the Denver area: Anne Dunlap at Liberation Community (www.liberationcommunity.org)

by: abledsoe

05-06-2010 @ 10:15pm

Hey there, Nadia. You missed the other solo female church planter you graduated with who's still in the Denver area: Anne Dunlap at Liberation Community (www.liberationcommunity.org)

by: facebook-1183256698

05-26-2010 @ 10:18pm

In my synod (Northeast Ohio), there are two church planters; one white male, one black female. I think it's hard to be a church planter and have a family (at least for women). It takes a lot of self-confidence, too (which I don't think is encouraged as much in women). On the other hand, when I was a teenager, I couldn't imagine being a pastor (since I'd never seen a female pastors) and now I am one!

by: facebook-1183256698

05-26-2010 @ 10:18pm

In my synod (Northeast Ohio), there are two church planters; one white male, one black female. I think it's hard to be a church planter and have a family (at least for women). It takes a lot of self-confidence, too (which I don't think is encouraged as much in women). On the other hand, when I was a teenager, I couldn't imagine being a pastor (since I'd never seen a female pastors) and now I am one!

by: facebook-1183256698

05-26-2010 @ 10:18pm

In my synod (Northeast Ohio), there are two church planters; one white male, one black female. I think it's hard to be a church planter and have a family (at least for women). It takes a lot of self-confidence, too (which I don't think is encouraged as much in women). On the other hand, when I was a teenager, I couldn't imagine being a pastor (since I'd never seen a female pastors) and now I am one!

by: linwrites

10-04-2011 @ 12:49pm

Hi Nadia! Ran across this blog and even though it's a year old, I want to thank you for writing it! We solo church planting women are still out here but we are very far and few between. It is absolutely pioneering work for sure. And it's sad how resistant God's church is to God's upcoming revolution of having as many women planting and leading churches as there are men. It's exciting though because our generation is about to see it happen in miraculous ways! I know I am and will be a small piece in it. Keep praying family of Christ, God's will WILL be done because it's not about us, nor male or female but it is all about CHRIST and how He can use both genders. faith 101 sheesh! :-) Love, Lin W. / Church Planter / Founding Senior Pastor www.churchatmovies.com www.thatwomanpastor.com