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After Tucson, the State of the Union

In Tucson, Arizona, President Obama spoke to the state of the nation's soul. Next Tuesday, January 25, he will speak to the state of the union. But these two topics are not as separate as they might seem. Presidents often use the State of the Union as a moment to talk about who we are, who we are not, and who we can be as a nation. Democratic Senator Charles Schumer and Republican Senator Tom Coburn will sit next to one another during the president's State of the Union as a testament to where both of these senators -- who have significant disagreements -- hope our nation's soul will come to rest. I share their hope for our nation.

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The speech Barack Obama gave in Tucson was a memorial to the victims of a horrible tragedy, but the spirit of his speech could also shape Tuesday's State of the Union address by calling us to be worthy of each victim's sacrifice. The political leaders of the nation have shown signs of wanting a more civil discourse, and there have even been signs of reflection and re-examination in some of our media forums. The president should continue to build on this fresh, but still frail, desire for less rancor and a more democratic conversation.

The State of the Union could be a good time to call us to move beyond the exaggeration, caricature, misinformation, and demonization that occur too often in our public discourse today. Instead, President Obama could call us to clarify honest disagreements and identify potential points of unity.

Wouldn't we all rather see the end of a recession defined by more jobs on Main Street, rather than by more profit on Wall Street? Wouldn't we all like to create jobs using methods favored by both liberals and conservatives?

Couldn't now be a time to reaffirm a national commitment to care for the widow, the orphan, and the marginalized? Couldn't we agree that Social Security is good for society, and discuss the best means to make sure it is strengthened and available for today's seniors who need it, and for generations to come?

Can't we agree to hold our biggest banks and corporations accountable to simple standards of fairness and decency, without being anti-business in ways that hurt our economy?

Wouldn't we all like to see a broken immigration system (that both parties are responsible for neglecting) reformed in a humane way, rather than hear fruitless debates over extreme views on deportation versus amnesty?

Can't we all agree that we want more people covered by health care; the most egregious practices of health-care industry reformed; and the costs of health care better controlled? Can't we work to mend the health-care reform bill, rather than participate in the partisan, symbolic, shrill, and inconsequential battles over repealing it?

Can we agree that the deficit is a moral issue, but so are the ways we choose to reduce it? Can we agree not to resolve our deficit by making our most vulnerable citizens even more vulnerable? Can we agree that powerful special interest groups should not be allowed to keep their interests off the table of scrutiny?

Can't we see that the costs of the war in Afghanistan fall on too few families; that 10 years of the same policy is enough; and that in a time of deficit, an endless war is simply unsustainable? Instead, can we talk about our responsibility to the people of Afghanistan, to our own over-stretched veterans, and to our need for "nation-building" at home?

All of this may be far too hopeful, and I certainly don't want to be simplistic. But in the field of conflict resolution, there is a common and very effective technique that is often employed: You have to state the opinion of your adversary repeatedly until they agree that you understand their position, and that they have been heard correctly. Continuing to exaggerate, distort, misrepresent, and attack the other's position or opinions will not help resolve conflicts.

I often wonder if this same discipline needs to be used in solving the nation's biggest problems. Until we have listened long enough, carefully enough, and respectfully enough to the legitimate concerns of the other side, we will never accurately understand the issues, problems, disagreements, and ways we can find possible common ground -- or, at least, the necessary compromises. Even when there are clear clashes of interests that must be debated, won, or lost, it is still helpful to understand what those differences really are.

On Tuesday, the president can help call us to a new and better national discourse. He can, and should, state his own visions, goals, and priorities, and then invite the other side to offer their own in the days ahead. Maybe, just maybe, Tucson will help us change the terms, tactics, and tenor of our political battles. And the president has the opportunity to lead the way.

portrait-jim-wallisJim Wallis is the author of Rediscovering Values: On Wall Street, Main Street, and Your Street -- A Moral Compass for the New Economy, and CEO of Sojourners. He blogs at www.godspolitics.com. Follow Jim on Twitter @JimWallis.


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by: PASTOR JEFF

01-21-2011 @ 1:10am

Squeak: You, too, should stay completely away from the political discourse.

by: PASTOR JEFF

01-21-2011 @ 1:15am

"We have met the enemy and he is us."

Really, duh, Doesn't God hate? If so, who? If not, why?

( I write this trusting you know me well enough from other posts and why I pursue this line)

by: PASTOR JEFF

01-21-2011 @ 1:45am

Exhibit A: The US Civil War

Exhibit B: The killing fields of Cambodia

by: David1971

01-21-2011 @ 9:25pm

Richard,

In fairness to Mr. Wallis, he has called on numerous occasions for all of us to look in the mirror and think deeply about how we communicate with one another. He's also talked about a grassroots spiritual revival in this country, so I think it's not accurate to say that he's looking to our leaders to cure our spiritual or moral ills.

by: sankukai

01-21-2011 @ 2:28am

Rev. Wallis:

Your call to civility and tolerance of dissenting views on the part of politicians, leaders and media pundits of all ideological stripes, while commendable, unfortunately, misses a larger point. The incitement to violence and racial hatred, the use of gun imagery, references to "second amendment solutions", "reloading, not retreating" and the "targeting" of liberal political figures have all come from conservative or republican-leaning politicians, pundits and leaders, especially from the so called "populist", radical right incarnated in the Tea Party movement. I have not heard a single progressive or left leaning political leader, media figure or public intellectual call for violence against corporate establishment figures, right wing politicians or right-wing media pundits. Their protests and comments are often ignored by the mainstream media and even so none of these folks have called for "taking out" (remember Pat Robertson?) people that are a seen as a threat to social justice movements or advocated for the violent overthrow of capitalism or the military industrial complex. Instead they have have expressed their commitment to sustained, far-reaching, non-violent efforts to raise awareness and educate people about the fundamental injustice and immorality of economic and political systems that prioritize military spending and corporate greed while minimizing the plight and social injustice that working and poor people across racial and political lines suffer every day.

Again, while I believe the call to civility and tolerance should be embraced by ALL sides of the political debate, the aforementioned distinction I believe is critical and should be made clear. In our current context, The extreme RIGHT is the one using the language of violence, bigotry and incitement while the mainstream republican establishment only makes half-hearted attempts to denounce the hatred and fear they produce, while hoping to capitalize on these very feelings for their own political gain.

by: sankukai

01-24-2011 @ 8:18pm

At the risk of being flagged, let me interject the conversation once again and urge those that call left wing political and economic criticism "hateful" to do research and see if any known progressive intellectual, media figure, journalist or activist has called for "second amendment solutions", or "reloading, not retreating", or if progressive activists have been seen at protest rallies carrying signs that say "we left our guns at home(this time)" or "save a seal, club a republican".

As for politicians, all of you probably remember that Jesse Kelly, Gabby Giffords' republican opponent held a fundraiser last November that encouraged supporters to "Get on Target for Victory in November. Help remove Gabrielle Giffords from office. Shoot a fully automatic M16 with Jesse Kelly". Do you know of a single democratic congressman or woman that has engaged in similar antics?

The most well-known activists, intellectuals and journalists on the left such as Bill Moyers Glenn Greenwald, Norman Solomon, Robert Reich, Ralph Nader, Keith Olbermann, Michael Moore, Markos Moulitsas, ect have been critical, very critical in fact, of the hypocrisy of republicans and conservatives over issues such as health care reform(remember those congressmen who will not renounce their govt' funded health care plans?), tax cuts for the rich, continuing funding for an unwinable war in Afghanistan and the willingness of President Obama and congressional democrats to seek further "compromise" on these issues with republicans and the plutocratic, financial interests they represent, while middle and working class people bear the greater share of a burden wrought by Bush neoconservatives' vision of an endless "War on Terror" and Wall Street's unchecked greed.

But to equate these criticisms, strong as they might be, with the violent, hateful rhetoric and gun-glorifying antics of tea party leaders and activists is either intellectually dishonest or reveals a profound ignorance about what contributors to sites like DailyKos, CommonDreams or Salon.com are actually saying.

by: scat

01-21-2011 @ 9:59pm

Richard --thank you for the John Adams quote -- some problems are persistent and it seems we have not yet learned the lesson in some 200 years.
David --I don't think Richard was accusing Jim of just looking to our leaders to solve our spiritual ills. Richard was talking of all of us, as I have also tried to do. We need to demand better behaviour of ourselves and our leaders. I have lamented the ease with which people lie and accept lies -- "it's just a little lie" or "it's no big deal, all politicians lie". Even in everyday life, lying is seen as a normal response to so many situations -- just take a look at a few commercials showing kids lying to parents and we think it's so cute.
Our values seem to be more in valuing results rather than how something was accomplished. We reward kids for just showing up.

commonsense --- I agree that some of your comments are unnecessarily personally insulting. All that shows is that your argument may be so weak that you feel it's necessary to distract -- I know it and others know it because we have all given into that temptation from time to time. In fact I used to take pride in my verbal ability to destroy others in one sentence. And please don't ask others to look it up for themselves when you assert conclusions without factual proof. That ends up on the cutting room floor.

by: squeaky

01-21-2011 @ 2:38am

When you are right, you are right.

by: sankukai

01-21-2011 @ 2:41am

To all Sojourner contributors:

Rev. Wallis' call to civility and tolerance of dissenting views on the part of politicians, leaders and media pundits of all ideological stripes, while commendable, unfortunately, misses a larger point. The incitement to violence and racial hatred, the use of gun imagery, references to "second amendment solutions", "reloading, not retreating" and the "targeting" of liberal political figures have all come from conservative or republican-leaning politicians, pundits and political leaders, especially from the so called "populist", radical right incarnated in the Tea Party movement.

I have not heard a single progressive or left-leaning political leader, media figure or public intellectual call for violence against corporate establishment figures, right wing politicians or right-wing media pundits. Their protests and comments are often ignored by the mainstream media and even so none of these folks have called for "taking out" (remember Pat Robertson?) people that are a seen as a threat to social justice or advocated for the violent overthrow of capitalism or the military industrial complex. Instead they have have expressed their commitment to sustained, far-reaching, non-violent efforts to raise awareness of, build a resistance to and educate people about the fundamental injustice and immorality of economic and political systems that prioritize military spending and corporate greed while minimizing the plight and social injustice that working and poor people across racial and political lines suffer every day.

Again, while I believe the call to civility and tolerance should be embraced by ALL sides of the political debate, the aforementioned distinction I believe is critical and should be made clear. In our current context, The extreme RIGHT is the one using the language of violence, bigotry and incitement while the mainstream republican establishment only makes half-hearted attempts to denounce the hatred and fear they produce, while hoping to capitalize on these very feelings for their own political gain.

by: squeaky

01-21-2011 @ 10:15pm

Very true. I was very sad to have to give up my sarcasm, at least in the written forum. Cuz, dang it, a good sarcastic, witty jab is so fun!

But, not everyone gets it. Some take it seriously. Some don't realize it is meant as a joke. So I have had to stop using it both here and in most conversations (unless I know for sure the person I am talking to is on board with it).

by: PASTOR JEFF

01-21-2011 @ 2:45am

Please don't.

by: squeaky

01-21-2011 @ 2:50am

Don't what...?

by: commonsense247

01-21-2011 @ 2:54am

"I have not heard a single progressive or left-leaning political leader, media figure or public intellectual call for violence against corporate establishment figures, right wing politicians or right-wing media pundits."

You clearly are out of touch with reality and actual events.

by: PASTOR JEFF

01-21-2011 @ 2:53am

...stay completely away from discourse of course

by: squeaky

01-21-2011 @ 2:52am

Oh great. Here come the links...Brace yourself...

by: David1971

01-21-2011 @ 10:51pm

Scat,

Yes, I think I misinterpreted what Richard was saying. Sorry about that, Richard :)

by: Patricia

01-21-2011 @ 2:55am

We've been through this on 2 or 3 threads already, sankukai, and it has resulted in nothing positive.

by: squeaky

01-21-2011 @ 2:57am

Heh-heh. Although I acknowledge the truth in your statement that I should stay away from political discourse, it does not mean I would do so. How many times have I said "enough" when it comes to this site? Yet here I am again.

Seems I will leave this site when they pry my computer off of my cold, dead lap.

by: PASTOR JEFF

01-21-2011 @ 11:26pm

Is this the same God that sends sinners to eternal damnation and hell-fire? If He's on all our sides what do we make of heaven and hell?

by: duhsciple

01-21-2011 @ 3:06am

I'm sorry that I'm not following you, even though I've read many of your comments.

by: squeaky

01-21-2011 @ 11:39pm

Actually, I agree with Mick's point that He is on all our sides, but we aren't all on His side.

If he wasn't on our side, then He wouldn't have made a way for us to come to His side via Jesus.

Some reject His side, in spite of all His efforts, unfortunately.

by: squeaky

01-21-2011 @ 3:07am

Just wait for it. The links will come. I promise. Or go to another Tucson thread and you will find them there.

by: sankukai

01-21-2011 @ 3:06am

What reality and events are you talking about? Again, I am not pointing this out out of some perverse pleasure I get in singling out people from the Right, BUT BECAUSE IT IS TRUE. Can you name any mayor progressive or liberal political o media figure that has been using the kind of aggressive, incendiary rhetoric used by the Right to denounce or vilify their opponents?

by: sankukai

01-21-2011 @ 3:13am

I disagree. When we are able to see the truth for what it is, it is an immensely positive thing. We may not like it, but we have to accept it.

In the current political context, the toxic, violent rhetoric is coming from the RIGHT! I say this not to demonize conservatives or republicans, but to be clear about what we are talking about and see where the greater responsibility lies in our current context..

by: PASTOR JEFF

01-21-2011 @ 3:37am

Whoops, that gets you a flag.

by: commonsense247

01-21-2011 @ 3:58am

I'm shocked by your denial or ignorance of reality, because the examples of incendiary, aggressive, and even violent rhetoric used by left and progressive political and media figures are plentiful. You're entitled to your opinion, however accurate or inaccurate it may be, but your claim of truth or fact is grossly false.
Tune into MSNBC (Dylan Ratigan, Lawrence O'Donnell, Chris Matthews, Keith Olbermann, Ed Schultz, etc), Daily KOS, Salon.com, Mike Malloy, often articles in the NYT, Media Matters and its employees, the postings of Journolist members (all part of the liberal or progressive left media), and almost any fundraising letter from the DNC and its members and anyone with a rational mind can note the incendiary rhetoric often calling or wishing for a violent end to those with whom they disagree. Voicemails to Stupak and Schmidt et al over their pro life views and the health care bill are typical of such language.
The G20 summit protestors and the Rally to Restore Sanity attended by those who identify as liberal or progressive,showcased the mass hatred and wild vitriol of those on that side of the political spectrum that desire harm to those that oppose them. Even their failure to clean up after themselves and to trash and litter their surroundings illustrates the hypocrisy and incongruent statements of belief regarding responsibility and the environment.
Who starts rioting, looting, destruction and desecration of property, and physical attacks on others? Members of the left, progressives, and anarchists. Those are the facts.
Incendiary language is wrong no matter from what political side it comes from, and to mischaracterize and deny reality to achieve a distortion that better fits with your views is intellectually dishonest and sadly deranged.

by: commonsense247

01-21-2011 @ 4:02am

You may protest what you disagree with, but your attempt to silence it is typical of the left and progressives. True dialogue and debate outweighs adolescent covering of the eyes, ears, and resorting to pithy comments and flagging.

by: PASTOR JEFF

01-21-2011 @ 4:08am

How specific!

A flag again.

In case you don't see your violations they are these words:

"your denial or ignorance of reality"

"anyone with a rational mind can note the incendiary rhetoric"

"Who starts rioting, looting, destruction and desecration of property, and physical attacks on others? Members of the left, progressives, and anarchists."

"mischaracterize and deny reality to achieve a distortion that better fits with your views is intellectually dishonest and sadly deranged. "

by: scat

01-21-2011 @ 4:15am

Commonsense247 -- You make a lot of generalizations but not one specific example of hateful rhetoric from the left. I did hear about some congressman today that recited the Goebels comment about telling a lie often enough to make people think it's true in reference to the Republicans. That's a pretty well-worn out metaphor, but it is the only thing I recall hearing from the left that I find objectionable. If there were such statements as you suggest out there why isn't the great right-wing talk machine talking about them? I certainly would like to know. And please document precisely what instances of "rioting, looting, destruction and desecration of property, and physical attacks on others" by member of the left you are referring to.
You are right -- "Incendiary language is wrong no matter from what political side it comes from, and to mischaracterize and deny reality to achieve a distortion that better fits with your views is intellectually dishonest and sadly deranged. "

by: commonsense247

01-21-2011 @ 4:14am

You've just been flagged for breaking rules #1 and #2 with your very first retort.

by: commonsense247

01-21-2011 @ 4:14am

Ah Jeff, point out specifically what I am saying that is not true with examples or evidence rather than simply protesting and feigning that I am 'breaking the rules.'

You've just been flagged for breaking rules #1 and #2 with your very first retort.

by: Patricia

01-21-2011 @ 4:26am

Please please check out the other Tucson and civility and rhetoric threads and see what this discussion has led to.

It's not that we don't know what the truth is.

by: commonsense247

01-22-2011 @ 5:45am

And how is your phrase "the great right-wing talk machine" not a generalization, then? Any comment made about the left or progressive narrative is labeled as a retort and generalization.
That unbalanced application of judgement is clearly biased and it is not with Christian honesty that one can claim it is fair.

by: Patricia

01-21-2011 @ 4:29am

No, sorry - the sort of comments you made are in clear violation of the code of conduct clearly posted above the comments section.

It's not about silencing - it's about requiring respect even when we disagree. Personal insults, stereotyping, and bearing false witness are disrespectful. Plenty of people who disagree manage to do so here without resorting to those tactics. .

by: scat

01-25-2011 @ 1:09am

Patricia -- Not only is tort reform a relatively small contributor to any solution to health care, it isn't even new. That issue has been around for decades as the solution to all kinds of ills, including overcrowded court dockets. That it is now being touted as one of the right's key reform provisions demonstrates where the right's concerns are and it is not for the health of average Americans, but for the profits of the those who already have bulging pockets. Not until we are willing so separate the concept of health care from for-profit insurance will we make any significant progress.
Even sadder is the idea that if this is the best the right can offer as a health care solution, then we have a long way to go. It is amazing to me that anyone who is capable of tying thier own shoes believes this nonsense.

Sankukai -- I have asked those who accuse people on the left of participating in hateful rhetoric for examples -- to no avail. I want to know who is spreading this stuff, no matter what side they are on. I certainly don't want to support anyone who does this. But all we get is "the other side does it to" or "look it up". You would think if the left was really doing it, those folks on the right would be blasting it all over the internet.

by: commonsense247

01-22-2011 @ 5:49am

Anyone who has the will, time, and desire can. But those who don't have less reason and evidence on which to base their views or statements.

by: commonsense247

01-21-2011 @ 4:28am

Scat, since it would take a very long time to list as the examples and evidence is so plentiful, I'll leave that for anyone honest, willing, and interested to discover for themselves by simply using any search engine and entering the names I've mentioned and the words vitriol, rhetoric, violence, encite, hatred, etc and finding the results for themselves. I guess you're not aware, but the great ring-wing talk machine (will Pastor Jeff flag you for using such a statement? I think not, which is evidence of bias and hypocrisy) has definitely been citing examples the rhetoric and vitriol from the left and from those who identify as progressives.
I listen to and read news and commentary from a variety of sources across the political spectrum which exposes me to what is being said. Of course the left will not comment on their own vitriol, and the right will not either. I suggest that many of those here with views left of center will not then be exposed to grievances on that side unless they are getting an aggregate of sources and views.

by: commonsense247

01-22-2011 @ 5:48am

That was a humorous light-hearted post from both sides. I agree that entertainment has replaced reason, however humor can be injected for various therapeutic effects.

by: commonsense247

01-21-2011 @ 4:41am

I beg to differ, Patricia. Pointing out that someone's claims of truth are quite frankly a denial of reality is not a lack of civility, courtesy, or respect. And the reactions you and Pastor Jeff take are more inclined to flag those with whom you disagree, as I pointed out in my comment to Scat on the use of "the great right wing talk machine". Your views dictate your act of flagging, and are thus not a pure approach or application of the rules stated.

by: commonsense247

01-22-2011 @ 5:46am

Actually it's pure reasoning.

by: commonsense247

01-21-2011 @ 4:45am

Someone else has spent the time logging such examples of vitriol, hatred, and incitement to violence by those that call themselves left or progressive. Quite a good listing is done here - http://tinyurl.com/2aucavx

by: commonsense247

01-22-2011 @ 6:00am

You misread what I wrote. I didn't claim to know 'who' you flag, if in fact you do at all. What I'm saying is that reading through any thread on this site, it's quite apparent that comments supporting one political view are flagged and determined to be disrespectful, exaggerations, or generalizations, while comments from another political view are encouraged, supported, and reiterated no matter the content of disrespect, sarcasm, exaggeration, or generalization. In other words, expect and hold everyone to the same standard. That is honest, fair, reasonable, and what I expect from those who claim to be governed by His saving grace and held accountable.

by: commonsense247

01-22-2011 @ 6:10am

PASTOR JEFF wrote, in response to commonsense247:

"Excuse me. Could you tell me where I could buy some mushrooms?"

"Why, any idiot knows they are available in the Wal-Mart down the street. Here let me show you how to operate a shopping cart."

Is this respectful dialogue even given extenuating circumstances?

=========================

That kind of distended mischaracterization of my example makes it irrelevant and not very applicable.
First you begin with a question. Then the answer is given in a sarcastic and demeaning manner to someone who was asking for help. None of that was taking place here and is completely out of context.

A person makes a claim, then states it is true and factual. Then adds that they know of nothing that jeopardizes or challenges that claim.
My response was surprise and disbelief that if they were truly engaged they could miss (or ignore while being honest) the multiple occurrences that in fact render their claim of truth and fact completely erroneous.

Let's use relevant illustrations to make our points keeping us intellectually honest.

by: commonsense247

01-21-2011 @ 4:56am

Yes, and in the words of Monty Python.. "just plain silly."

by: commonsense247

01-22-2011 @ 6:11am

Hear hear.

by: squeaky

01-21-2011 @ 4:54am

Ah yes, the Great Flag Wars of 2011 have begun.

by: Patricia

01-22-2011 @ 6:38am

It is not a generalization because while there IS, factually, a "great right-wing talk machine" consisting of FOX, Rush Limbaugh, Glenn Beck and most talk radio - this particular media spectrum gets enormous ratings - not all members of the right, or even the right wing are members of the machine. If the statement had been that the entire right, or all the right, or everyone on the right were part of or supporting that talk machine, THEN it would be a generalization. The fact that there IS a great (in rating size) right-wing talk machine is, in my opinion, indisputable.

Can you see the difference?

by: squeaky

01-21-2011 @ 4:57am

Who is this "great ring-wing talk machine" you speak of? And how can they fly with wings shaped like rings? Is that aerodynamic?

by: commonsense247

01-25-2011 @ 2:52am

You have been provided documentation and links which you evidently refuse to look at; once again, denying reality because you will not open your eyes or ears is not a valid argument that it does not exist.

by: Patricia

01-22-2011 @ 6:42am

You said: "...the reactions you and Pastor Jeff take are more inclined to flag those with whom you disagree..." - how would I have misread that?

Document the supposed disrespect, exaggerations, and generalizations you claim are encouraged, supported, and reiterated, please.

There are many people in these threads who disagree tremendously with Christian progressives. We run the gamut from liberal to libertarian. It is simply not true that we encourage, support and reiterate disrespectful comments from one side, and exaggerate and flag comments from the other.

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by: Joel225A

01-20-2011 @ 7:37pm

Too bad you chose to take the view a better discourse had to make some side of the issues worse then others. Framing the others position as a negative is part of the problem Jim , and yours.

To better the discourse why not state that too many times those who produce so many jobs for the American people , make products so affordable are seen to get all the blame , this is not the case .
But that does not mean they have all the solutions either. Then actually state a cogent reason why more spending will not make things worse, or why spending needs to decrease here and get higher over there. Or why we can tax people more and not suffer lower production . Those ideas need to stand alone without the help of making the other side look rotten Jim . Thats the civility issue .

Our problems are all of ours , no one side should get all the blame or actually any of it . We need to work together . You used nice rhetoric to make one side appear unwilling to have help and not even be a constructive part of the conversation. Somehow different then nasty rhetoric if your telling the other side they are hurting the rest of us ?

For The president to get action , he will need to move as he stated and hopefully meant what he said at the memorial . You were pretty quick to backtrack .

I was wondering why so many bloggers that write for organization were not heeding your call for civility, its because you call is meant that your side of an issue is somehow the civil side because it is correct on the issues. You missed whatb this debate was all about . Totally!

Big difference , both sides need to respect the belief the other side comes to the tablethat they are hoping things will get better . Then both sides need to make their case , work together .
If one side is plagued by n organization promoting issues and rhetoric say from the right in a specfic case, the leaders on the right need to confront that also . we all need to stand up for real discourse and hopefully get real solutions . because if those solutions do not agree with you or me has nothing to do with civility.

Otherwise nothing will be solved . Except some grand editorials of my side is better then yours and my side is the side of hope and change or my side is the side of God and your side is the side of sodom nd gomorrah .

God is on all our sides Jim .

by: Joel225A

01-20-2011 @ 7:37pm

Too bad you chose to take the view a better discourse had to make some side of the issues worse then others. Framing the others position as a negative is part of the problem Jim , and yours.

To better the discourse why not state that too many times those who produce so many jobs for the American people , make products so affordable are seen to get all the blame , this is not the case .
But that does not mean they have all the solutions either. Then actually state a cogent reason why more spending will not make things worse, or why spending needs to decrease here and get higher over there. Or why we can tax people more and not suffer lower production . Those ideas need to stand alone without the help of making the other side look rotten Jim . Thats the civility issue .

Our problems are all of ours , no one side should get all the blame or actually any of it . We need to work together . You used nice rhetoric to make one side appear unwilling to have help and not even be a constructive part of the conversation. Somehow different then nasty rhetoric if your telling the other side they are hurting the rest of us ?

For The president to get action , he will need to move as he stated and hopefully meant what he said at the memorial . You were pretty quick to backtrack .

I was wondering why so many bloggers that write for organization were not heeding your call for civility, its because you call is meant that your side of an issue is somehow the civil side because it is correct on the issues. You missed whatb this debate was all about . Totally!

Big difference , both sides need to respect the belief the other side comes to the tablethat they are hoping things will get better . Then both sides need to make their case , work together .
If one side is plagued by n organization promoting issues and rhetoric say from the right in a specfic case, the leaders on the right need to confront that also . we all need to stand up for real discourse and hopefully get real solutions . because if those solutions do not agree with you or me has nothing to do with civility.

Otherwise nothing will be solved . Except some grand editorials of my side is better then yours and my side is the side of hope and change or my side is the side of God and your side is the side of sodom nd gomorrah .

God is on all our sides Jim .

by: Patricia

01-20-2011 @ 7:49pm

Joel, which column did you read? Could you please use documentation from the text to provide some context to your accusations? Because I just didn't read Mr Wallis saying the things you did.

by: Patricia

01-20-2011 @ 7:49pm

Joel, which column did you read? Could you please use documentation from the text to provide some context to your accusations? Because I just didn't read Mr Wallis saying the things you did.

by: PASTOR JEFF

01-20-2011 @ 7:56pm

God can't be on all of our sides and be just.

by: PASTOR JEFF

01-20-2011 @ 7:56pm

God can't be on all of our sides and be just.

by: Patricia

01-20-2011 @ 8:33pm

I think God is on all our sides as long as we are sincerely living and seeking to do God's will...it's when we get off track into justifying ourselves through sinful means that God has a problem with.

by: Patricia

01-20-2011 @ 8:33pm

I think God is on all our sides as long as we are sincerely living and seeking to do God's will...it's when we get off track into justifying ourselves through sinful means that God has a problem with.

by: duhsciple

01-20-2011 @ 9:09pm

What common goals do y'all agree to from this article?

Leaving aside questions of character, where do you disagree? What goals would you change?

I celebrate that the two senators will be sitting together! And I thought Jim's proposals were beautifully stated. If you feel some of the goals are wrong, I invite you to persuade me towards changing my thinking. Remember, you'll be more convincing with a gracious over against an attacking approach.

by: duhsciple

01-20-2011 @ 9:09pm

What common goals do y'all agree to from this article?

Leaving aside questions of character, where do you disagree? What goals would you change?

I celebrate that the two senators will be sitting together! And I thought Jim's proposals were beautifully stated. If you feel some of the goals are wrong, I invite you to persuade me towards changing my thinking. Remember, you'll be more convincing with a gracious over against an attacking approach.

by: LMW1

01-20-2011 @ 9:10pm

If you believe that God has a "side" then you are grossly uninformed. That's the kind of exceptionalism that has us in the mess we find ourselves. Preachers should stay completely away from the political discourse.

by: LMW1

01-20-2011 @ 9:10pm

If you believe that God has a "side" then you are grossly uninformed. That's the kind of exceptionalism that has us in the mess we find ourselves. Preachers should stay completely away from the political discourse.

by: Liz Wright

01-20-2011 @ 9:13pm

For documentation of Joel's concerns, I would look at the "Can't we agree" statements. I don't question Mr. Wallis's sincerity, and I think that his central point is sound, but I do think that this point is weakened by some of his examples. For instance, I can agree that Social Security should be available to today's seniors, who were promised it, worked for it, and did their financial planning counting on it. I do not agree that it should be guaranteed to future generations. I could go into that in detail, but that's not really relevant. What is relevant is that, while calling for civility and listening, Mr. Wallis has spent time setting forth a few of his positions. This post could be a great starting point for those who oppose him to listen and, as he recommends, even learn to repeat the opinions of their political adversaries. What it does not appear to do is to model that behavior. That's what I think Joel is objecting to.

(Again, I don't imagine that the bias is deliberate.)

by: Liz Wright

01-20-2011 @ 9:13pm

For documentation of Joel's concerns, I would look at the "Can't we agree" statements. I don't question Mr. Wallis's sincerity, and I think that his central point is sound, but I do think that this point is weakened by some of his examples. For instance, I can agree that Social Security should be available to today's seniors, who were promised it, worked for it, and did their financial planning counting on it. I do not agree that it should be guaranteed to future generations. I could go into that in detail, but that's not really relevant. What is relevant is that, while calling for civility and listening, Mr. Wallis has spent time setting forth a few of his positions. This post could be a great starting point for those who oppose him to listen and, as he recommends, even learn to repeat the opinions of their political adversaries. What it does not appear to do is to model that behavior. That's what I think Joel is objecting to.

(Again, I don't imagine that the bias is deliberate.)

by: duhsciple

01-20-2011 @ 9:27pm

Thank you for graciously stating your thoughts about Social Security.

As practice in listening, I understand your position to be that we need to gradually phase out Social Security as it is currently organized.

For further practice, you hoped the article would have demonstrated more listening to those who disagree with the author instead of the author restating his own positions.

How did I do?

by: duhsciple

01-20-2011 @ 9:27pm

Thank you for graciously stating your thoughts about Social Security.

As practice in listening, I understand your position to be that we need to gradually phase out Social Security as it is currently organized.

For further practice, you hoped the article would have demonstrated more listening to those who disagree with the author instead of the author restating his own positions.

How did I do?

by: Patricia

01-20-2011 @ 9:27pm

So, out of the entire article, you have decided that Mr Wallis is not modeling the behavior he advocated based on your disagreement with one phrase in one sentence in one out of 6 areas where he believes we can begin from a point of agreement?

That's a pretty rigid standards for judgment, isn't it?

by: Patricia

01-20-2011 @ 9:27pm

So, out of the entire article, you have decided that Mr Wallis is not modeling the behavior he advocated based on your disagreement with one phrase in one sentence in one out of 6 areas where he believes we can begin from a point of agreement?

That's a pretty rigid standards for judgment, isn't it?

by: Liz Wright

01-20-2011 @ 9:39pm

You did excellently, duhsciple.

Patricia, no, that's not what I'm saying at all. I'm saying that he does not model the behavior based on 6 areas in which he sets forth part of his position as something that is entirely uncontroversial--which, in my opinion, it is not. I mention that one position because it's an easy example for me. I actually agree with most of the statements that I can see as controversial. It seems like Joel disagrees with several more of them. I, for instance, am against the wars that we're in and do see them as economically unsustainable. But it is certainly conceivable that others reading might believe that the war in Afghanistan is necessary and a high priority. Clearly some people do believe that, since we are still in it. So to say "Can't we all agree" about that...I wish that we did all agree on it. But I don't think that we do. And my essential point is not that Mr. Wallis is somehow wrong or bad, but that the force of his call for civility and listening is diluted by these assumptions of agreement.

Yes, it is a rigid standard, and as long as we're clear that I'm judging the essay and not the person, I don't have a problem with that.

by: Liz Wright

01-20-2011 @ 9:39pm

You did excellently, duhsciple.

Patricia, no, that's not what I'm saying at all. I'm saying that he does not model the behavior based on 6 areas in which he sets forth part of his position as something that is entirely uncontroversial--which, in my opinion, it is not. I mention that one position because it's an easy example for me. I actually agree with most of the statements that I can see as controversial. It seems like Joel disagrees with several more of them. I, for instance, am against the wars that we're in and do see them as economically unsustainable. But it is certainly conceivable that others reading might believe that the war in Afghanistan is necessary and a high priority. Clearly some people do believe that, since we are still in it. So to say "Can't we all agree" about that...I wish that we did all agree on it. But I don't think that we do. And my essential point is not that Mr. Wallis is somehow wrong or bad, but that the force of his call for civility and listening is diluted by these assumptions of agreement.

Yes, it is a rigid standard, and as long as we're clear that I'm judging the essay and not the person, I don't have a problem with that.

by: Liz Wright

01-20-2011 @ 9:43pm

Ah. Sorry--I think you edited your comment after I had begun to reply. Yes, you are probably correct that if I agreed on all points I would not be as critical. But if I agreed on all points, would I be the target audience for the piece?

by: Liz Wright

01-20-2011 @ 9:43pm

Ah. Sorry--I think you edited your comment after I had begun to reply. Yes, you are probably correct that if I agreed on all points I would not be as critical. But if I agreed on all points, would I be the target audience for the piece?

by: Patricia

01-20-2011 @ 9:53pm

It appears to me as if you are judging the person, but I'll take your word that you don't intend to. I'm sure your bias is not deliberate, either.

by: Patricia

01-20-2011 @ 9:53pm

It appears to me as if you are judging the person, but I'll take your word that you don't intend to. I'm sure your bias is not deliberate, either.

by: mountaindancer

01-20-2011 @ 10:51pm

What? Why not?

by: mountaindancer

01-20-2011 @ 10:51pm

What? Why not?

by: duhsciple

01-20-2011 @ 10:55pm

re: Afghanistan war

*economically unsustainable
*counter productive
*if fraction of the money spend on the war had been invested in development, then we would have made much more progress against terror
*the theology of "how to defeat terror" undergirding the war is suspect

I wish we could all agree on this!

by: duhsciple

01-20-2011 @ 10:55pm

re: Afghanistan war

*economically unsustainable
*counter productive
*if fraction of the money spend on the war had been invested in development, then we would have made much more progress against terror
*the theology of "how to defeat terror" undergirding the war is suspect

I wish we could all agree on this!

by: squeaky

01-20-2011 @ 11:02pm

Sometimes He is on our side so firmly that it feels like He is pushing against us. Then we finally figure it out and get on His side...

by: squeaky

01-20-2011 @ 11:02pm

Sometimes He is on our side so firmly that it feels like He is pushing against us. Then we finally figure it out and get on His side...

by: Patricia

01-20-2011 @ 11:05pm

Is this a reply to me, Liz?

I am having a problem with my text box here, and after about 5 or 6 lines, the last lines disappear and I can't see what I'm typing until after I post it. I've tried typing gobbledygook to make the cursor advance and then going back and removing it, but that is tiresome. So I end up editing after I post. And then, as I re-read in my edit, I sometimes decide to re-state or clarify in the interest of civility :).

by: Patricia

01-20-2011 @ 11:05pm

Is this a reply to me, Liz?

I am having a problem with my text box here, and after about 5 or 6 lines, the last lines disappear and I can't see what I'm typing until after I post it. I've tried typing gobbledygook to make the cursor advance and then going back and removing it, but that is tiresome. So I end up editing after I post. And then, as I re-read in my edit, I sometimes decide to re-state or clarify in the interest of civility :).

by: squeaky

01-20-2011 @ 11:05pm

Of course God has a side. We just aren't always on it, even when we are convinced we are.

It's OK for Jeff to talk about this stuff. He isn't really a pastor, after all.

(That's an inside joke for all who have been on GP long enough to get it. Yes, he really is a pastor.)

by: squeaky

01-20-2011 @ 11:05pm

Of course God has a side. We just aren't always on it, even when we are convinced we are.

It's OK for Jeff to talk about this stuff. He isn't really a pastor, after all.

(That's an inside joke for all who have been on GP long enough to get it. Yes, he really is a pastor.)

by: agnosticnomore

01-20-2011 @ 11:15pm

"God can't be on all of our sides and be just". Pastor Jeff

Seems to me that God is within, twiddling His thumbs as we bumble around trying to figure out which side He is on.

by: agnosticnomore

01-20-2011 @ 11:15pm

"God can't be on all of our sides and be just". Pastor Jeff

Seems to me that God is within, twiddling His thumbs as we bumble around trying to figure out which side He is on.

by: Liz Wright

01-20-2011 @ 11:21pm

Yes, it was to you. That's cool. I just thought I ought to reply to all points while I was replying, and then thought that I should clarify why it was in two separate posts.

by: Liz Wright

01-20-2011 @ 11:21pm

Yes, it was to you. That's cool. I just thought I ought to reply to all points while I was replying, and then thought that I should clarify why it was in two separate posts.

by: duhsciple

01-20-2011 @ 11:26pm

Part of a civil conversation is that we need to be specific. I wish my writing skills were better. Here's a second crack at why I clicked "like" for Jim's article.

re: Social Security

*given the fragility and corruption revealed in our financial system in 2008, I cannot support privatization of Social Security

*Social Security needs revamping so that the retirement age is made later and the higher income people who do not really need the money have their benefits capped

*we also need incentives for people to invest in their own retirement

*we need to redefine our "needs" and to reexamine our "anxieties". The Lord tells us "not to worry about tomorrow" and to "consider the lilies of the field." We need spiritual writers to provide guidance in how to make this shift.

*we need to make a shift from a "look out for yourself society" to a "common good society." When the economically vulnerable are not cared for, then we are all vulnerable. I believe in both "charity" and "justice." We need both strong non-profits and strong public options.

*For too long we have wanted to have both low taxes and high government services. We need an adult conversation to look at both ends of this faulty equation.

*To make the shifts necessary we require lots of grace and working together. To those who have been cynical towards the "calls for civility" I must point out that we NEED one another. In the end, we succeed and fail together. Any politician or media figure who does not see this fails in wisdom, maturity, and courage

*When I ponder the way we demonize each other, I think that is it quite unrealistic to be hopeful. On the other hand, we to hope anyway, because it is still the best option.

*The conversations that have taken place here encouraged me to subscribe to Sojourners in 2011. I know that I need to invest even more in this voice. I believe in it.

by: duhsciple

01-20-2011 @ 11:26pm

Part of a civil conversation is that we need to be specific. I wish my writing skills were better. Here's a second crack at why I clicked "like" for Jim's article.

re: Social Security

*given the fragility and corruption revealed in our financial system in 2008, I cannot support privatization of Social Security

*Social Security needs revamping so that the retirement age is made later and the higher income people who do not really need the money have their benefits capped

*we also need incentives for people to invest in their own retirement

*we need to redefine our "needs" and to reexamine our "anxieties". The Lord tells us "not to worry about tomorrow" and to "consider the lilies of the field." We need spiritual writers to provide guidance in how to make this shift.

*we need to make a shift from a "look out for yourself society" to a "common good society." When the economically vulnerable are not cared for, then we are all vulnerable. I believe in both "charity" and "justice." We need both strong non-profits and strong public options.

*For too long we have wanted to have both low taxes and high government services. We need an adult conversation to look at both ends of this faulty equation.

*To make the shifts necessary we require lots of grace and working together. To those who have been cynical towards the "calls for civility" I must point out that we NEED one another. In the end, we succeed and fail together. Any politician or media figure who does not see this fails in wisdom, maturity, and courage

*When I ponder the way we demonize each other, I think that is it quite unrealistic to be hopeful. On the other hand, we to hope anyway, because it is still the best option.

*The conversations that have taken place here encouraged me to subscribe to Sojourners in 2011. I know that I need to invest even more in this voice. I believe in it.

by: duhsciple

01-20-2011 @ 11:29pm

Words that appear in the petitions of the Lord's Prayer...
our
us
us
us
us

Words that do not appear in the Lord's prayer...
my
me

Therefore, I conclude that God is on OUR (= everyone's) side.

by: duhsciple

01-20-2011 @ 11:29pm

Words that appear in the petitions of the Lord's Prayer...
our
us
us
us
us

Words that do not appear in the Lord's prayer...
my
me

Therefore, I conclude that God is on OUR (= everyone's) side.

by: Patricia

01-20-2011 @ 11:47pm

Thanks, duhsciple - I do not support the privatization of Social Security for those specific reasons also - I think you did a great job detailing them :). I believe most Americans could support most of the approaches you listed.

I don't believe the majority of Americans favor ending Social Security - immediately, gradually, or otherwise. Aside from the morality of being willing to leave our elders in poverty to end their days, I think we would end up paying MORE were the safety net not in place.

I think Mr Wallis does tap into an area of widespread common agreement in this column, with Social Security, and with the other items he noted.

by: Patricia

01-20-2011 @ 11:47pm

Thanks, duhsciple - I do not support the privatization of Social Security for those specific reasons also - I think you did a great job detailing them :). I believe most Americans could support most of the approaches you listed.

I don't believe the majority of Americans favor ending Social Security - immediately, gradually, or otherwise. Aside from the morality of being willing to leave our elders in poverty to end their days, I think we would end up paying MORE were the safety net not in place.

I think Mr Wallis does tap into an area of widespread common agreement in this column, with Social Security, and with the other items he noted.

by: babsnjer

01-20-2011 @ 11:58pm

As long as people believe that "I am my brother's keeper" is a Communist plot, we're going nowhere. I believe that our "democracy" is so hopelessly corrupt, so controlled by enormous multi-national corporations, that there's almost no hope of a return to a time when the middle class was prosperous and fairly dealt with. It's just more Goldman-Sachs, more BP, more Bank of America, and on and on until, much like the Roman empire, the system collapses. And that's only if Mother Nature doesn't get us first for trying to destroy creation.
So we can all go back and forth about the Health Care Act, and who's looking out for the little guy and who's really just a tool of the wealthy and powerful for hours and days and months, but in the meantime we're becoming a third-world nation without the individual will or community consciousness to rise up and do anything about it.
I am sixty now, if I live another thirty years, I think I'll be witnessing the decline of America and maybe even the entire civilized world. The class war is over, it was won by the rich.

by: babsnjer

01-20-2011 @ 11:58pm

As long as people believe that "I am my brother's keeper" is a Communist plot, we're going nowhere. I believe that our "democracy" is so hopelessly corrupt, so controlled by enormous multi-national corporations, that there's almost no hope of a return to a time when the middle class was prosperous and fairly dealt with. It's just more Goldman-Sachs, more BP, more Bank of America, and on and on until, much like the Roman empire, the system collapses. And that's only if Mother Nature doesn't get us first for trying to destroy creation.
So we can all go back and forth about the Health Care Act, and who's looking out for the little guy and who's really just a tool of the wealthy and powerful for hours and days and months, but in the meantime we're becoming a third-world nation without the individual will or community consciousness to rise up and do anything about it.
I am sixty now, if I live another thirty years, I think I'll be witnessing the decline of America and maybe even the entire civilized world. The class war is over, it was won by the rich.

by: Patricia

01-21-2011 @ 12:09am

I think, as Christians, no matter how bleak things look in this world, we must have faith and not give in to despair. And, as Christians, we must have faith and live the lives we are called to through Christ whether those lives bear fruit or get results in this world or not. It's like Mother Teresa said: "God did not call me to be successful - God called me to be faithful" (as close as I remember).

Even if we are slipping into third world status, even if the rich seem to have won the class war, even if it seems that our nation no longer has a sense of community consciousness - it is up to us to live faithfully.

by: Patricia

01-21-2011 @ 12:09am

I think, as Christians, no matter how bleak things look in this world, we must have faith and not give in to despair. And, as Christians, we must have faith and live the lives we are called to through Christ whether those lives bear fruit or get results in this world or not. It's like Mother Teresa said: "God did not call me to be successful - God called me to be faithful" (as close as I remember).

Even if we are slipping into third world status, even if the rich seem to have won the class war, even if it seems that our nation no longer has a sense of community consciousness - it is up to us to live faithfully.

by: babsnjer

01-21-2011 @ 12:34am

I say this entirely without irony, Patricia, I hope you receive God's blessings in this lifetime, and I say that even though I'm not a Christian or even a person with strong faith. I believe there is a spiritual power, but most of us have lost touch with it, and our leaders are so besotted with the other sort of power they have lost their touch with us.
I try to live a decent life and be kind to others, but what the world is telling us these days more than at any other time in my lifetime that I can recall is that the only values that matter are competitiveness and individual accomplishment. That, supposedly, is what makes us great as a nation.
What a sorry state of affairs.

by: babsnjer

01-21-2011 @ 12:34am

I say this entirely without irony, Patricia, I hope you receive God's blessings in this lifetime, and I say that even though I'm not a Christian or even a person with strong faith. I believe there is a spiritual power, but most of us have lost touch with it, and our leaders are so besotted with the other sort of power they have lost their touch with us.
I try to live a decent life and be kind to others, but what the world is telling us these days more than at any other time in my lifetime that I can recall is that the only values that matter are competitiveness and individual accomplishment. That, supposedly, is what makes us great as a nation.
What a sorry state of affairs.